Relational Fields
May 20, 2019
Our relational field is like our dance floor of life. We want to be able to move, dance well with others and not trip over stuff from the past.
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We oftentimes do not observe the relational field or, let me put it this way: We don't observe the relational field enough.
So we might say, I just don't get along with those people or I can't do that. So we kinda just settle for it. Rather than understanding that this field is what you have to create from. You can't create unless you have a field big enough to create in.
And over time, stuff happens. So some sometimes stuff happens for ourselves. We've learned we can't do this or we can do this, but, you know, we can't get along with these people.
I like to think of it like if if it's a dance floor, if the field is like a dance floor, we can't move. We don't have the freedom to move. Right? You wanna have the freedom in your life to move.
And you so you wanna have a lot of moves. You wanna be able to dance with a lot of different people.
And you don't want dead bodies on your floor.
You know, you don't want stuff from the past that's gotten stuck there to be in your way that you trip over.
It just like a good gardener. Good gardeners don't just plant their seeds and walk away.
Right? A good gardener tends to their garden. They work it. They pull out the weeds.
They, you know, they aerate it. They're caring for it. So the this relational field needs to be tended to, all the time because it's always there. It never goes away, and it never is stagnant because things are happening, right, all the time.
So actions are happening and those things that are happening could easily produce something negative in the relational field.
